Moving out of your parents house for the first time is exciting but also scary. Here, we are going to offer you our top five tips for how to make the whole thing a much better experience. 

Moving out of parent’s’ house for the first time is exciting. You are off to a new adventure and the start of a new chapter of your life. But, it can also be scary and overwhelming. Moving house, even in the most exciting of circumstances, is a stressful endeavour and you need to be ready. 

Within this article, we will look at our top 5 tips for moving out of your parent’s house for the first time in the hopes that we can help keep it exciting and less scary. 

1. Talk with Your Parents 

First off, it is really important that you talk with your parents about your plans. If you are old enough to be moving out of your parents house, then you will be an adult who can do what they want without your parents permission but this is not about permission. This is about giving your parents the courtesy of knowing your plans. This will show them that you are mature and that you have really thought about the decision. This will give them peace of mind that you will be okay when you move out. 

If you are moving out of your parents house due to heading off to university, it is still a good idea to talk with your parents as they will be able to give you advice and ease any worries. 

2. Work Out Your Budget

If you are moving out of your parent’s house, you will no longer have them as a safety net. 

You should start by working out a daily budget to make sure you can actually afford to live on your own. Next, you need to compare your income to your total monthly expense and take everything into account – groceries, travel expenses, phone bills, any subscriptions or memberships etc.  You also need to take into account that some expenses might increase such as your groceries and your travel expenses. 

If you’re planning on renting, use this budget to work out how much you can afford to spend on rent. You need to remember to include council tax and an estimate of your utility bills. If you’re unsure of any component of your budget, it is best to overestimate it and, if you can, try to leave some money aside each month for unforeseen costs, or to go into savings. Renting might take too big a chunk out of your paycheque so it is always a good idea to consider getting a housemate or flatmate.

If you are renting, you also need to remember that you will need to give some form of deposit. For some, a deposit can be up to 6 weeks rent. 

3. Think About Your Preferred Area

Once you know your budget, it is time to begin thinking about which area is right for you and your needs. Think about who you would like to be close to – friends, family etc. 

Consider the type of area you want to live in. Do you enjoy cities or do you prefer quieter, more rural areas? 

If you are moving for a job or for university, consider areas that do not create a difficult commute for you and anyone visiting you. 

Once you have found your preferred location, you should visit the area on different days and at different times, including going at night. This will allow you to get a better sense of the area. 

4. Have A Clear Out 

When you have your preferred location and have begun looking at houses and flats, it is a good idea to have a clear out of all your belongings so you don’t move a load of stuff you don’t need or want any more to your new home. 

Anything you realise that you don’t want or need any more can be donated to a charity shop or sold, if they are in good condition. If there are some items you aren’t sure about, these can either be left at your parents house, if they are okay with this, or you could rent a storage unit where it will be kept as safe and secure as your parents house.  

5. Prepare Yourself Emotionally

So, yes you are old enough to be moving out of your parents house but that does not mean you aren’t going to be feeling scared, nervous and sad. 

You should prepare yourself emotionally and make sure you plan with your parents when you’ll see each other next. Get a date in the diary for when they are going to come and see your new place and a time to visit them for dinner. This will help to make the process feel less final and scary. 

If this is your first time living alone you might feel uneasy at the prospect, so do whatever you need to do to feel safe. Change the locks, introduce yourself to the neighbours, or, if you haven’t already, leave time on moving day to walk around the neighbourhood to get to know it.

Your first night alone in your new home may also be scary. There will be new noises and new shadows. This will all take some time to get used to and, if you need to, invite a friend over for your first night or ask your parents to stay. It doesn’t make you any less a grown up! 

5 Tips For Moving Out Of Your Parents House For The First Time 

Moving out of your parents house for the first time is an exciting time but it can also be scary and stressful. It is a really good idea to talk with your parents about it so they are not surprised by you moving out and so they can offer you advice and ease any worries you may have. 

After this, you should have a good look at your budget, making a note of all your expenses so you know how much money you have to spend on rent and bills. Once you have your budget, you can now begin thinking about your preferred location. You need to think about who you want to be close to and what type of area you want to live in. Once you have decided on your perfect location, make sure to visit it on different days and different times. 

Once this is all in place, it is a really good idea to have a good clear out before moving. You do not want to bring a load of stuff to your new place that you no longer want or need. This can be donated or sold. If you have items you aren’t sure about or don’t need year round, they can be left at your parents house or stored within a self storage unit. 

Finally, make sure that you allow yourself to feel everything you are feeling. Yes, you are an adult and you are moving out but you are allowed to be nervous and sad. Do everything you can to ease this feeling, even if this means asking someone to stay the night on your first night in your new home. 

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